For over 23 years, I, Selayne, have been deeply immersed in the world of life and relationship coaching. My journey began by guiding married couples, single women and those in serious relationships or on the verge of marriage.

Through specialized 6–12-week virtual courses, I focus on fostering authentic communication and teaching my clients the heart talk method which is all about safe and non-judgmental conversations. One of my strengths lies in enabling individuals understand and deepen their emotional intimacy. Additionally, I help clients enhance their emotional intelligence and navigate the delicate balance of roles and responsibilities in relationships. An area I am particularly passionate about is exploring the intricate connection between spirituality and religion in relationships.

Beyond traditional coaching, I offer on-site crying and release therapy sessions, a therapeutic method allowing for deep emotional healing. I also organize intimate retreats for women, providing them a sanctuary for rejuvenationat select wellness centers and bed & breakfasts.

My foundation in coaching stems from my time working with church staff and I firmly believe that my abilities are divine gifts from God. While I cater to a broad audience, I’ve found my calling in assisting millennials, especially those who have experienced spiritual challenges within the church and those who’ve grappled with childhood PTSD.

Outside of coaching, I am the voice behind, “Sela Speaks”, a radio show where I celebrate successes by interviewing my graduates, providing listeners with real life testimonials. Everything I offer is under the banner of my enterprise, SEC LLC. For those eager to reinvent their relationships and find a balanced emotional state, I’m here to guide and transform.